Your Winners Circle

Peak Potentials Training Steps Up To The Plate to Help The Relief Efforts In Haiti

Just recently, Peak Potentials Training held one of their personal/wealth development courses called Life Directions, Mission to Millions in Los Angeles, California.  Some 700 people participated in a three day course and for some it was life changing. During the course of the event, communication came from the home office located in Vancouver, Canada that they decided to not only take donations for the relief efforts in Haiti but they were going to match the donations, dollar for dollar of those given by the participants. 

As the first day progressed, donations came in but not in leaps and bounds as the people attending were focusing on the processes at hand and their own personal and professional growth. On the second day of the course there was about the same amounts of donations that came in throughout the day but not significantly large in proportion of the amount of people attending.  But as they grew in their learning and their own visions,  missions and purposes the amounts began to grow as well.  By the end of the course on the third day, these individuals raised over $20,000 and show just what can be done with alittle bit of hope and a lot of belief. Peak Potentials will match that amount but decided not to stop there.  For the people who volunteer to assist at the various events throughout the year they are being giving an invitation to contribute as well to raise the total to over $50,000. 

This is an outstanding effort along with the many others that are being developed by a number of groups and organizations throughout our country.  Together we can change not only ourselves and our country but we can help change situations in other parts of the world.  I am proud to be a part of a people who can unite in the face of disaster and reach out to assist another nation. 

I have seen several entrepreneurs making efforts to contribute as well so I have decided to add to the efforts by offering that for each of my journals that is purchased between now and February 28, 2010, all the monies will be added to the donations of Peak Potentials Training so that they too can be met dollar for dollar which means...for each 365 Days of Successes Journal purchased to celebrate the successes in your life, double the amount will also help to change the lives of those left behind by the disaster in Haiti.  Help me Help them Help Others! 

Being Offended By Others Helping You Is A Sign Of Insecurity

Maybe you have notice that you are around or work with people who are always asking you if you are supposed to be assisting them or are THEY not supposed to be heading up a particular project.  They are always questioning why you are doing something and implying that you are stepping on their toes or over stepping their authority.  Sometimes you may just be lending a hand till the appropriate person shows up to take over to complete the task.

Maybe you were sent to help another person and that particular person asks why you of all people were sent or asked to assist.  This is a form of insecurity and can cripple you in relationships either personal or in the workplace.  Sometimes it comes from someone who is your equal in position and sometimes it can even come from a supervisor. Their indication is that you are trying to take their job or are stepping on their toes and implying that they can not do their job effectively or efficiently. Most of the time this is not the case and is a matter of honest and sincerely assistance.  Are you one of these people?

Confidence in yourself and the courage to receive assistance is the sign of a great leader. This person can not only deligate task but can accept assistance when others are willing with grace and ease.  There is no need to be threatened  when you empower those around you to be a part of the overall project.  If someone rises above the task given to them, that is an indication that you are also an outstanding teacher as well as a leader.  It is an honor to have other model after you and your princilples.  Be a role model is one of the greatest compliments that your peers can bless you with.

So when you get the inclination to be offended when others attempt to assist or take the initiative to take on a task without being told, pause and empower those individuals to continue to rise to the occasion and the next level. And when they do they are a reflection of the one who taught them along their journey.  Appreciate their efforts and determination to succeed and all of you will be winners at days end.

Sometimes You Have To Clean Up Your Own House First

This weekend I had the opportunity of not only meeting but working hand in hand with an amazing woman who has an enonormous heart and is a winner in her own right.  She is a wife, a mother, a speaker, and an author.  Her name is Loren Slocum and I met her at the Author 101 Seminar held in Las Vegas, Nevada as she shared with the attendees her story and the principles she trains on.

She expresses that many of us make it so hard for us to win by focusing on the not so great things that are in our lives instead of that which is great.  Loren does not believe that a person needs a whole life make over, all a person needs is "just a little tweeking here and there". This is the name of her newest book "Life Tuneups".  She remind people that the most important thing a person can do is to take care of themselves first.  You cannot give what you do not have.

Another thing that is covered in her book is how important it is to create a compelling vision for yourself.  This is not new andis taught by may leaders in the personal development industry.  She tells you to ask yourself, "Who do I have to become to be the person who is healthy and alive".  Use your vision board to constantly remind yourself of what is working great in your life. And always stay true to who you are. 

Her story is outstanding and she believes that sometimes you just have to redicover who you are and what you really stand for.  It was a gentle reminder that I too need to stay tuned and tuned up to give back to the world all that I have to offer.

You Create More Success By Making Others Feel Great About Themselves

The economy continues to spiral downward and with it goes the esteem of the general public.  Many are loosing their jobs and their homes and having to start over in a world full of uncertainty.  So the question presnted to me was how do you become or remain successful in a falling and broken economy?  The answer is actually very simple.

Everyone wants to feel good about themselves.  Especially when the rest of the world around them is falling apart.  Success is created when you go out of your way to assist or encourage someone else.  Even if it is not immediate, those that you reach out to will not forget you and will trust you in the future with their purchases.  When it stops being just about the money, the Universe will bend over backwards to bring back to you in like fashion all that you give.  Call it the Law of Attraction or whatever you choose, the fact of the matter is that it is true.  Abundance comes to those whose give the same, no matter what it is.  It may be time, it may be training and it may just be money as well...but it is something. 

Making people feel great about themselves creates a fundation for the future whether it is yours or that of another.  Also as a two fold blessing, you feel great about yourself and will project that to those around you.  And again...like attracts like whether you like it or acknowledge it or not.  That confidence shows up in your success as well.  Those who might not normally purchase from you will either do so or refer others who have a need and a desire for what you are promoting in your business. 

Think about it.....When was that last time you met someone and were so comfortable with them and felt a sense of trust then purchased from them or someone they recommended.  The achievemnet level rises when a person feels not only good but great about themselves.  If you do not feel that way about yourself..it looks like there may be some work to do on your part.  Once you establish that presence you will see the difference in the world around you.  So if you want to be more success in this faultering economy get in the business of making people feel great about themselves and the rest of your success is a matter of time.  

You Don't Have To Be Human To Be A Hero, Winners Come In Many Forms

 I was emailed this story and was tremendously moved by its intensity.  I wasnted to share it as well to those who have not heard it before.  My dog and cats are rescue animals and I am so blessed to provide them a great home and enjoy their warmth and companionship. Winners come in all shapes and sizes but nowhere is it listed that they are only human.

My kind of dog! 
 
This is the story about Brutus, a military K9 at McChord.
 
 He's huge - part Boxer and part British Bull Mastiff and tops the scales at 200 lbs. His handler took the picture. Brutus is running toward me because he knows I have some Milk Bone treats, so he's slobbering away! I had to duck around a tree just before he got to me in case he couldn't stop, but he did. Brutus won the Congressional Medal of Honor last year from his tour in  Iraq . His handler and four other soldiers were taken hostage by insurgents. Brutus and his handler communicate by sign language and he gave Brutus the signal that meant "go away but come back and find me".  The Iraqis paid no attention to Brutus. He came back later and quietly tore the throat out of one guard at one door and another guard at another door. He then jumped against one of the doors repeatedly (the guys were being held in an old warehouse) until it opened. He went in and untied his handler and they all escaped. He's the first K9 to receive this honor. If he knows you're ok, he's a big old lug and wants to sit in your lap. He enjoys the company of cats.
 
 K-9 Congressional Medal of Honor Winner
 
 Thought you'd find this interesting.
 
 Talk about animal intelligence and bonding with humans!
 
   Remember that they can't do a lot of things for themselves and that they depend on you to make their life a quality life!
 
 A PET'S TEN COMMANDMENTS.........
 
 1. My life is likely to last 10-15 years. Any separation from you is likely to be painful.
 
 2. Give me time to understand what you want of me
 
 3. Place your trust in me. It is crucial for my well-being.
 
 4. Don't be angry with me for long and don't lock me up as punishment. You have your work, your friends, your entertainment, but I have only you.
 
 5. Talk to me. Even if I don't understand your words, I do understand your voice when speaking to me.
 
 6. Be aware that however you treat me, I will never forget it.
 
 7. Before you hit me, before you strike me, remember that I could hurt you, and yet, I choose not to bite you.
 
 8. Before you scold me for being lazy or uncooperative, ask yourself if something might be bothering me. Perhaps I'm not getting the right food, I have been in the sun too long, or my heart might be getting old or weak.
 
 9. Please take care of me when I grow old. You too, will grow old.
 
 10. On the ultimate difficult journey, go with me please. Never say you can't bear to watch. Don't make me face this alone. Everything is easier for me if you are there, because I love you so.
 
 ~Take a moment today to thank God for your pets. Enjoy and take good care of them.
 
 Life would be a much duller, less joyful experience without God's critters. 
 
  We do not have to wait for Heaven, to be surrounded by hope, love, and joyfulness. It is here on earth and has four legs!  

Memorial Day Is An Amazing Time To Realize The Freedom We Have And Those Who Fought To Secure It

As I work on my online businesses and spend time with my friends today, I am very aware of the freedom I so much enjoy.  Although many of us, especially those who have been extremely successful online, enjoy the ability to make our own choices and do the things we do with who we wish, many people around the world do not enjoy such a luxury.  But it is who went to battle that secured this freedom that we recognize and honor today.  And honor is a virtue and a value that is many times taken for granted. 

As we go through our busy day enjoying barbeques, swim parties, cocktails, friendships and relationships, let us not forget the lives that will not be enjoying the same because they were called to duty.  The duty of defending and maintaining freedom for those in this country.  These men and women had the courage to stand up and fight and even lose their lives.  These are the winners I appreciate each time I see my now grown children and their children laugh and cry with opportunity to grow and improve themselves into individuals that can make a difference in their communities and the world around them.  I am proud to live in America despite it's flaws give my gratitude to those who stood on the front line so that I could live a rich and fullfilled lifestyle.  "Thank You to Our Armed Forces"  May the gifts and blessings of a MIghty God be with those of your friends and family that are still with us today.

A Life Of Authenticity Will Bring A Life Of Meaningful Success

People talk about living happy, successful, and even meaningful lives but none speak of living an authentic life.  What exactly is an authentic life?  To live an authentic life you live by your truths in your day to day agendas.  It is not enough to believe your truth you must live it as well.

To be authentic means to know yourself and trust yourself.  It is by action and thought that you become authentic.  Once you have heard from within beyond the normal daily inner chatter, you can put into life that knowing and believing.  To not be authentic would mean that you would have belief but not act upon it.  Sometines it may be inconvenient to act on your beliefs but it will never be convenient to be authentic.

A large number of people are not true to themselves. They do not look beyond the superficial to find purpose.  If your truth changes then your actions must change as well.  It is the change that happens in you that changes the world around you.  To be truely happy youmust live a life of authenticity.  Just success will not bring you this because happines and truth come from within. 

Do You Really Know The Power of Acknowledgment?

Whether you know it or not, the world is full of people who should be acknowledged and done so by you.  So many times we would like to do so for those closest to us but are afraid of how they may think or whether they would question your motives.  But acknowledgment takes practice and one way to get better at giving it sincerely is to start with the people you do not know in your world. 

Can you imagine just how the waitress wuld feel if you thanked her for know what your usual order was and had it going when she saw you walk in the door.  Or if you told the next person on the other end of the phone that assisted you how much you appreciated her help.  Make a point of doing that sometime and watch how their voice becomes a little cheerier or there is a bigger smile on their face.  So many in this world do not truely believe that they are good enough or fast enough or rich enough to make a difference.  Maybe just a little more acknowledgment will make the world a better place for those around us.

As you work on the world around you, it will be amazing how you begin to acknowledge and show appreciation for your family and friends.  And you will also notice how much better you will feel about yourself as well.  You will soon see how many people around you not only feel like winners but are winners.  Appreciation does not cost anything but has so much value.  Today is a great day to start making that kind of investment to everyone to include you.

Saying Goodbye To A Winner

Just recently I recieved the news that my stepson had passed away at the age of 25 years old.  Although he was young, Ty Holscher was a winner indeed.  As a child he was very entreprenuerial and looking for ways to build businesses and make things work.  After recovering from a headon auto collision, Ty was on the road to changing his life for the better when his life ended unexpectedly.

This is what Ty says about himself

My name is Tyrone, I'm half Korean and half German So I guess that makes me a unique half breed. I have much love for my God Jesus Christ. He died for me so I can be free and I owe him my life. I don't believe in luck I believe in blessings. I'm addicted to smiles and laughter and appreciate the more important things in life, I don't like to conform to stereotypes or makes decisions according the world living by 90210 or The Real World. I love the sunshine but appreciate gray days and the smell that it brings to AZ. We always know when to catch a sunrise or sunset but catching that BIG beautiful, colorful full moon is a rare occurrence. Bending strings on my guitar is one of my passions, I'm thankful for the gift of music. If not playing my guitar you may find me cooking breakfast at any given time during the day, then trying to burn it off and build some muscle in the gym.

Ty will be missed by everyone his life touched to include mine.

Bill Bartmann Is An Entrepreneur And A Gentleman

Just recently I had the opportunity to spend some time with Bill Bartmann.  This man is truely a gem of faith, encouragement, and inspiration.  Mr Bartmann was a high school drop out who has credentials a mile long yet spent personal time after the seminar hours to talk with people long into the evening.  He shared his story about how he was homeless at the age of 14 years old but chose not to give up.  After taking the GED exam  he went on to college and law school. He then built a company and a fortune only to lose it all and end up over a million dollars in debt. 

Bill and his wife Kathy are a great example of courage and appreciation.    Bill Bartman has much more to his story and you can learn more about him and what he has to offer at www.billbartmann.com .  He is truely amazing and every one of us has much we can learn just by being in his presence.  His billionaire status has not in the slightest changed the great character of this man.